I like Haali's positives. Would like to drink a coffee with u if possible to discus this and other positives.
stephenlow58@yahoo.com.au
I agree with
'I like the way that most women seem to feel safe getting around by themselves day and night. In many other countries this is not the case. I like how public space is vital and used by people all the time. I like the Chinese dedication to bettering themselves through education. I like how old people go out and exercise and socialise rather than rotting in armchairs like many old people in the UK do. I like how parents try their best to give their children the best start in life (though I feel they push too hard in some cases). I like that the essentials of life (food, rent, utilities) are affordable.'
Dudeson you do have a lot of time to write however I respect your perspective. When I think of Chinese culture I think of Confucianism,guanxi, rice, complex relationships, the family structure, the one child policy, government power etc and those old and young people doing tai chi in packs down on Green lake park. I also agree most of the young Chinese I know reject that and OK fair enough. Globalisation is producing convergence everywhere. How much longer do you think this culture will last? one - two generations?
Michael 2015 and Long dragon both have interesting perspectives. The saving of face is an important characteristic of Chinese culture that you can sit back and complain about, which in a western environment is probably the right thing to do if you want to sleep at night. However in this wonderful culture, if you want to prosper, sadly you must play by the same rules. In certain context people lie to save face and its obvious however their is no way to win unless you use the same rules. ie. lie when you are wrong - its a strange beast. Guanxi is another interesting concept that at the Government level is usually the powerful versus the weak however in business if you are willing to take your time and play the game, and its complex, you can develop real friends and can stick to your ethics. By that I mean develop some great friendships of people that will stick by you when you need them. However trust is a characteristic you need to constantly question and even when you feel you know someone well be careful.
Forget about the west, this is China and the rules are very different but in every game you can win if you play it smart. Unfortunately you may have to forsake your integrity but that is part of the game as well.
