I have one, my target audience is mostly Americans whose main question before I left was, "you're going where?" But you know, cheers: swallowantelope.blogspot.com
You'll need a vpn, also, obviously.
Is there something that YOU would like to share with the class, Ocean?
Yes, this is all wonderful food for thought. Where do I even start.
He is in his late twenties, and I am in my early twenties, so it sort of seems like it is getting on to that time for him to get married.That was where this whole thing started from, I think, was from his age. If we were the same age, I would just be like, okay whatever, guy; but he's older so, you know I just got to thinking.
He doesn't text or call me too terribly much, I've definitely had worse. I think he understands the whole deal that I am a foreigner, and the differences that come with that. I don't think he's been around many foreigners though, I think it might be that he is just a really low-key guy, which is cool.
There has been kind of an unreasonable amount of togetherness since we met though, that is the one thing that is a little much. My whole I'm-a-young-independent-white-american-woman-in-china vibe is getting squashed a little bit, lol.
But I think the main thing is like, communication. Lautou I think you are right that this subject could be really interesting to explore with a romantic partner...that is if I could settle down long enough to quit giggling and have a serious conversation...! I'm just gonna have to think this whole thing over for a while.
Yes JJ and Janice that is such a lovely story, its nice to hear that things can work out in the end.
ksmcqueen, also a really great story! That totally sounds like something I would have done if I was still super fresh here.
You know to be honest, it's not really that talk of marriage like freaks me out, it is more confusing than anything. Like, I just don't know what to make of it:we just met, and unless your JJ and Janice its probably not gonna work out! But I think lihaizi brings up a good point, that maybe this kind of talk is more expected, maybe more so like an unfamiliar type of flirting, and less so any kind of concrete-plan making.
This is all really helpful haha thanks guys
So I went on a first date with this Chinese guy, who was really cool and nice, and we hit it off pretty well. But what's next I'm not really sure?
The date ended on kind of a funny note, with like talks of marriage and stuff like this..
I was just wondering if anyone had any experience with this? Because that is like WAY fast to be talking about marriage
I had a roommate once that stressed the importance of understanding that Chinese people always have a goal in mind. She was from Jiangsu though, people seem to be a little be more of the go-getter type there, and I don't want that to be the case but I can't really shake what she said off...
Anyways, I am kind of reeling here, I really like this guy but I don't really know what to make of this. Can someone help me shed some light on this subject?
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