According to my own experience and my friends experience with having a chinese girlfriend, my only advice for you is: No, don't do it.
There are some lucky guys that found a good chinese wife here in China and I'm happy for them.
I would rather go to Korea, Japan and Philippines, if you really have yellow fever.
I guess it depends what you're looking for in a 'Chinese girlfriend'. Are you looking for a temporary companion while you're in Kunming? Are you looking for a 'trophy' girlfriend'?
Are you looking for a serious relationship with a future with marriage in mind? Are you just looking for a 'fuck friend'? These questions and more need to be answered by only you. I am constantly seeing ads on Gokunming for people 'looking for some fun-time' or 'ONS', etc. It doesn't matter if you go to Korea, Japan, the Philippines or Thailand or any other place. The chemistry and your goals are what is going to determine if 'she's the one'.
@Woodie wow ur pretty pathetic!
@laotou he says 'how hard is it for a white western guy'
Amazes me how someone could think of moving abroad anywhere in the world just for the sake of finding a women though, just up and move leaving everything behind is never easy choice!
@nevet you started the thread with the question, now answer with some details about why you think in your mind that this could work well for you... interested to hear :)
@nevet, Obvious troll is obvious.
nevet and woodie are the same troll methinks
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I totally do not recommend a Chinese girlfriend. You can have them as friends, students or work partners but never girlfriends. I have stayed in this country enough time to be able to judge what I have seen. I just could mention "one example" and I hope it will never offend any one, I had three students who are married and all cheat on their husbands with several men.