In Xi'an, I went to a hot pot restaurant that gave each person their own pot. We all shared the uncooked food in the center of the table.

Is there any place like this in Kunming?

I'm sure there are others but this one is great:
www.gokunming.com/[...]

there's one on linyu lu in the north. can't remember the name but it's on your left, just over the bridge, on the first corner as you head east from beijing lu. i think it has a bull head on the sign. you get to choose what you want to add separately from the others.

Thanks!