Wow!
Thank you for all your answers and help.
Yes, the S-visa is a family stay or spouse vise.
No, I am not working on a spouse visa.
Most of my income comes from overseas projects.
I am occasionally doing consulting work, but for that my employers usually give me my work-permits and documents.
Besides that, I am making a little bit of liqueur but that I can do together with my wife, as long as she is the brains and producer behind this, moonshining operation.
I went to the PSB on two different days and I got very different answers.
I remember the last time I went, they gave me a checklist of documents.
I asked them for it but they said, they never had one of these.
Very strange.
One officer told me I need a criminal background check and a medical exam for any visa I want to apply for. Which seems even more strange.
Another officer told me, that I just need the marriage certificate, my wife's residence permit, an handwritten invitation letter, my residence permit and that's it.
But I don't want to be told next week, that I don't have all my documents ready and take an expensive and troublesome visa trip to Hongkong.