I am pretty new to Kunming. I have one minor, and one major, problem with these forums. I was told that this website is the "go to" place for expats, but now I am not sure.
1. It seems like this place is "controlled" by a small group of angry men. Lots of their posts do nothing but badmouth China, and whine like babies about every little thing. Well you know what? I LIKE Kunming. People here are being really nice to me, and I have a great job, and I think it is a beautiful city. I with the whiners would shut the hell up.
2. As a former victim of domestic violence (I almost died from my last beating before I left the jerk), I find the "jokes" about beating women to not only be in poor taste, but to actually be cruel and actively offensive. The men (yes, I know it is men) making them should be ashamed of themselves. It is not a joking matter, and you are making yourself look like bigoted old fools.