By the way, there were these huge loaves of white bread ( sliced) on the shelf. It looks fresh and costs RMB 8.80 ( i think). It was probably the best deal but the loaf was too big for me. So, i didn't get any

my fav bun wasn't on the shelf too ... :(

The bread are old probably because many are still not informed about the newly opened bakery. Hence, old bread is still sitting on the shelf. Hopefully, it will get better!!!!!!!!!!

So far, no prob if you have a visa. When you HAVE a visa, you minus a reason for them to refuse you exiting/into the country.

again...
1) She left for Baoshan.
You wudn't know if she is pregnant or still pregnant... or worse whether she was pregnant in the very first place......... She cud have given you misleading information as you had mentioned you do not understand fully the whole conversation...
I don't see why she wud want to go back to her town knowing that you are here and she is 'pregnant' with her child. My guess is that she is probably not preggers/no longer preggers/ preggers but the child is not yours. Or she is afraid that you would ask her to go for more test to prove that you are a dad etc etc.... Hence, the long distance communication.

2) Calculation for child support till child is 18 years old........
Come on man, who would do that??? only a con man/woman would so such thing..... I think if she is REALLY preggers with your child, she would push for a wedding instead of calculation for compensation till the child is 18 years old..... You did not mention about wedding so i assume that she did not push you for it.If she didn't and all she wants is money, she probably do not have anything to hold on to that would make you marry her.... but lies about the pregnancy to make you give her money asap......
Well, even if you do decide to pay her the compensation.. i tell you, it will never end. Never end... If she is not pregnant and all this is a scam, she could send you a pic of some child to make you believe that the child is yours.. Hence, you will be stuck with the support for the next 20 years.....

I just think that all this doesn't make sense. If she doesn't come back here and discuss things with you, then you tell her that she is not your responsibility.

You hold the winning card too you know. You tell her you don't believe that she is carrying your child, end of story.

She can't go to the police, she can't threaten you anymore.

Anyway, why not go back to your home country??

again...
1) She left for Baoshan.
You wudn't know if she is pregnant or still pregnant... or worse whether she was pregnant in the very first place......... She cud have given you misleading information as you had mentioned you do not understand fully the whole conversation...
I don't see why she wud want to go back to her town knowing that you are here and she is 'pregnant' with her child. My guess is that she is probably not preggers/no longer preggers/ preggers but the child is not yours. Or she is afraid that you would ask her to go for more test to prove that you are a dad etc etc.... Hence, the long distance communication.

2) Calculation for child support till child is 18 years old........
Come on man, who would do that??? only a con man/woman would so such thing..... I think if she is REALLY preggers with your child, she would push for a wedding instead of calculation for compensation till the child is 18 years old..... You did not mention about wedding so i assume that she did not push you for it.If she didn't and all she wants is money, she probably do not have anything to hold on to that would make you marry her.... but lies about the pregnancy to make you give her money asap......
Well, even if you do decide to pay her the compensation.. i tell you, it will never end. Never end... If she is not pregnant and all this is a scam, she could send you a pic of some child to make you believe that the child is yours.. Hence, you will be stuck with the support for the next 20 years.....

I just think that all this doesn't make sense. If she doesn't come back here and discuss things with you, then you tell her that she is not your responsibility.

You hold the winning card too you know. You tell her you don't believe that she is carrying your child, end of story.

She can't go to the police, she can't threaten you anymore.

Anyway, why not go back to your home country??