Forums > Living in Kunming > How does one meet nice Chinese women?

I don't work for a private company. I work for the government, so I have zero chances of getting put in mainland China. My agency does have a three man office in Hong Kong and Taiwan but getting there is not easy and would take YEARS, like 15-20.

Although I miss Kunming, when I was there, I was stressed out. I couldn't speak the language, I ate at Salvadors and the Box every day. I had problems sleeping. Yada, Yada, Yada...But if I come back, I would come up with a comprehensive plan. Last time I was there I didn't know what I was going to do day to day, week to week or hour to hour which is not a good thing.

There is a website: theelevatorlife.com. It's basically two entrepreneurs who came to Guangzhou a few years ago and dabbled in some business ideas. Now they run a successful wine business. I wish I could be like them. In their videos they seem happy and I'm sure they are banging all types of girls.

I WANT THAT LIFE!!!

Forums > Living in Kunming > How does one meet nice Chinese women?

Yes, I miss Kunming but I'm in a tough situation.

I have a decent paid job now and I've had it for close to 3 yrs. If I quit, I will go back to unemployed mode and my value will be zero. However, I would hate to wake up 40 yrs from now and say to myself, could I have made something of myself in China. Could I have started a business? Could I have had lots of dates with sexy Chinese ladies? Could I have created some type of product?

Life is like playing the lottery. Everyone hopes for the winning ticket but more often than not, we are stuck with nothing...

Forums > Living in Kunming > How does one meet nice Chinese women?

I myself was a loser laowai when I was in China a couple of years ago. I was unemployed, depressed, haven't had a date in years, stressed out, angry, and just wanted to get out of America.

I came to China thinking everything would end up being better and I would have better luck with women. I was hoping to "slay" a bunch of Chinese women but only ended up messing around with a few.

I loved getting attention from Chinese women, something I never got back in the States. In America, I never had a woman come up to me, smile, and chat. In China, it would happen quite often. For some reason, white women do not give me the time of day. I'm a white male BTW, I'm not fat, I workout, I am good with my money, but for some reason, white women are not interested in me.

I went to China without a plan and that is why I ultimately "failed". I didn't really know what I was going to do here. I wanted to study at YNNU and master the Chinese lang. but I just wasn't focused enough. I knew I didn't want to teach English. I ended up staying in Kunming for about 3 or 4 months before I went to Hong Kong for a month.

If I had to do it again, I would have stayed for at least a year or two and I would have tried to start sometype of business.

BTW, I have the balls to say I was a loser. Most guys will never admit that, even if it's true. With that being said, when I was there back in 2010, most of the laowai's that hung out in Salvadors were also losers.