We don't have those in Kunming... nobody's stressed from work because nobody works! You're in Shanghai, no? Walk out your door and look for the barbershops that don't have scissors or hairdryers.... much cheaper than flying to Kunming!

I prefer to drink while I'm studying! You might want to check out Yihu Chun on 25-27 Cuihu Nan Lu, near the southeast corner of Green Lake Park and just south of Green Lake Hotel. It's about as quiet as you can get in Kunming, a little noise from the street, but there is rooftop seating with a great view of the park. Perfect for sunny days, and not bad for dates or casual business meetings... as long as it's not raining!