xb - have you seen me direct any posts to you? Absolutely not! I have no idea why you are directing posts to me an I have no idea what you are trying to say here. What 120 yuan/hour? Obviously you have lost your mind. Do I know you? Did I offend you in a previous lifetime? Or are you just sensitive and easily offended by comments made by strangers?

HFCAMPO, see how it feels for random posters to attack you? Learn the lesson, grasshopper.

I just get annoyed with foreigners in china that depend on their wife to solve their problems. I also know you personally.

It is impossible that you know me personally because I only know 3 foreigners here in Kunming which I had the pleasure of meeting; Laotou, JJ, and another who is no longer here in China. So you are mistaken when you say that you know me personally. Perhaps you saw my picture in my website and now you feel that you know me. Sorry, but that does not mean you know me personally.

Seems you are also mistaken when you insinuate that I force my wife to learn english or when you get annoyed with foreigners who depend on their wives' to solve their problems.

People who have personally met me know that my name is Hugo and they know exactly who I am. I am not the type of person who is paraniod and must hide behind aliases and is fearful of self disclosure.

If you really do know me personally then man up and state your name for all to see.

By personally, I mean we've met in person. Also all your post about significant others include that they need to know English at a uni level. If you have not deducted my alias by now there is no hope.

I personally met the guy who sells me noodles every morning but I don't go around telling people I met him personally. I met (saw) a foreigner on the bus yesterday but I do not know him personally. I am sorry but I do not guess or deduce. This is why I told you my name and asked you to state your name. If we did meet before you must have really made an impression, NOT!

Here are some expressions I learned to live by when I was in the Corps. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Tell it like it is. Call a spade a spade. KISS = Keep It Simple Stupid.

I am sorry that you are offended because I asked my wife to get a degree in English. She certainly does not mind and she enjoys learning and improvng herself. I guess if I told you that now she is going to the TCM University on Baita Road that will annoy you even more. ooops, too late.

呵呵 so why don't you better your self and learn Chinese. I mean 10 years, and you still rely on her for your daily life. That's pretty demasculating.

Not only could that be demasculatong it could possibly even be immasculating.

Or even emasculating :)

That would be the worse case scenario I think. I am routinely immasculated but so far not one emasculated. The difference being, I think, the former I lose my pride but not my nads? In any case best to avoid the whole sticky affair.