Blackmail is coercion - I offered, voluntarily, therefore there is no coercion, no blackmail.
I have a bad habit of hijacking threads and it has to stop. The gokm team has been extremely tolerant, but it's time for some self policing. I can't help myself, because I see only negative things - so for me there's only one solution. Give me sugar and I'll terminate. It's a bit drastic, but effective.
@napolean
I've lived most of my life across the asia pacific rim, to arguably include 13 years in Australia. When we lived in Australia - the health inspector came by a family friend's new restaurant and banned him from using soy sauce as a cooking ingredient - claiming it was toxic, poisonous, and unhealthy...although Worcestershire Sauce is permissible...go figure.
I haven't lived in the USA for roughly 20 years, so I'm totally out of touch with "what is America today" and "what are Americans". My exposure to Americans living overseas was corporate executive management - and in a rare case of understatement, it wasn't pleasant. So, I'm a short fuse when I meet people like that, with their thinly veiled, and incredibly obscene and offensive hidden agendas.
US CONSUMERISM.
For US Trade with China - a simple check of US Trade figures will show the magnitude of that trade and it is considerable, as China currently occupies "most favored nation" trade status with the USA (I think it still does). Somehow - that doesn't inspire me to jump up and down and say "YEAH! I'm proud to be an American, cuz I'm buying Chinese goods to alleviate poverty in China!"
Aside from the former USSR, no other nation has the power to rather permanently obliterate entire nations, within a matter of minutes.
You're right - there are other forums - but this is the opportunity for me to get rid of myself, for public benefit, so since I've already hijacked this thread, please bear with me just a little longer - we're almost there.
A few one-liner zingers, like:
"Put a man on the moon"
would suffice amply, as sugar.
INTERNET
That's a good one. I'll have to dwell on that one - but looks good. Thank you.
In case anyone's interested, the internet was originally the spawn of the US Government's DARPA - Defense Advanced Research Projects Agency, although Al Gore also claimed he created the internet. Can I jump up and down and say, "YEAH! We created the internet! HooRAH!"? Difficult at worst, incredibly silly at best.
US CONSUMPTION
That's a long stretch, implying the intent of US consumption was to alleviate poverty in China - but if there's consensus - I can go with that. The poverty alleviation number was hundreds of millions - exceeding the entire population of the USA at roughly 300 million (illegal aliens notwithstanding). Again - difficult to jump up and down and say I'm proud to be American because I'm buying Chinese goods to help China alleviate poverty. Doing that in a bar in the USA might invoke a physical beat down from the BUY AMERICAN crowd.
USSR
The USSR spawned the space race, by putting the first man into space. The USA had to play catch up - so they put a man on the moon. That absolutely was a moment of global awesomeness.
The fall of the USSR is a debatable achievement - as it's ideologically based AND they're back and re-arming, giving the NATO budget renewed life. However, "YEAH! We caused to USSR to fail as a government! I'm proud to be American!"...might work for some, doesn't work for me - ALTHOUGH Reagan's famous Berlin Wall speech to Gorbachev was epically fantastic and exciting - that guy was an epic showman.
SILICON VALLEY
Maybe. I'm trying to balance the awesomeness of Silicon Valley with rendition, aggressive interrogation, and long-term incarceration in solitary confinement, the invasion of the middle east, and the spawning of ISIS, amongst other things. I'm having difficulty. However, your contention is the Silicon Valley wonder re-qualifies as an awesome nation.
Bearing in mind - the USA also embargoed China and the USSR, so they could NOT develop home-grown computers and systems for decades - a military/national security issue. But - interesting and worth consideration. Can I jump up and down and say "Yay! America created the internet - I'm PROUD to be an American!" Despite the fact that this is/was one of my professional responsibilities and puts food on the table - difficult to get excited over that one - but familiarity breeds contempt - but still...
@nnoble
Yes, I'm a father. I want the world to be a better place for my children. I don't want them to have experience the things I experienced consistently in US corporate life. My job is to educate them on how to recognize, avoid, or mitigate such potential disasters. I could teach them to shut up and be good quiet chinese stereotypical workers. However, the opportunity for corporate abuse is real and present if you're an achiever - NOT limited to USA corporate culture.
The sugar I was seeking is something that makes us jump up and down like an excited moron (a la Tom Cruise's famous meltdown) and yell to the world, "YEAH! I'm American and proud of it! Look at what we did! Awesome right?". Something genuinely celebratory - but maybe that's excessively lofty and unreasonable - but it would take something of that magnitude to offset a global financial crisis and a now publicly acknowledged, but misguided invasion and destabilization of not just a sovereign country, but an entire global region with its own name.
@tony
I blitz people when a conversation goes personal. Like "liar", BS, etc. These are and will always be the tools of bullies and coercive tactics. I've been bullied all my life and I've NEVER backed down from what I perceive as right and wrong, because that's what it is. My father gave that gift to me as a small child of Chinese descent, living in a white man's world. Bullies trying to get me to "go with the flow", "be a team player", and my all time favorites (used unsuccessfully on me twice), "Turn over all your professional relationships"...etc for their personal agendas at my expense, both financial and criminal.
Chinese and Japanese societies are generally "go with the flow". So I'm exceptionally, if not irrationally touchy, when people begin conversations like Laotou is a liar, BS is BS, and aspersion to my loyalty and patriotism to the USA, etc as they've all been pre-cursors to attempts to foist major and significant fraudulent and or criminal activity onto my head - the scapegoat and I'm nobody's scapegoat. My patriotism to the USA is prolifically documented and verifiable by the US Department of Defense and the US State Department. I may NOT have stood in front of bullets or sucked up carcinogens (got another tangential story on that one), but I contributed significantly, conscientiously, and to the best of my professional abilities to my country - for which I was poorly compensated and I don't get to wear ribbons or uniforms to display my patriotism. I'm actually forbidden by federal and criminal law to confirm or deny any and or all activities during that part of my life. So those of you who cast aspersions to my loyalty or patriotism to the USA can go put a sock in it, suck on it, and go vote for Trump - he's a kindred spirit.
Maybe it's out of line to jump all over Dazzer, Geezer, Tony, et al - but that's the world I've lived in and it was American AND British. I'm abrasive, hot tempered, and argumentative and I can be viciously vitreous, because of the people I've worked with and worked for. I'm nobody's scapegoat and nobody's doormat.
When people attempt to use coercive and interject personal insults, innuendo, etc to make their respective counter-points - they lose credibility and respect to me and I'm unfortunately NEVER one to shy away from an affront. Some may call me oversensitive - but it's saved me from jail, professional disgrace, financial ruin, and even more terrifying and unbelievable experiences - think Wen HoLee and when I say he was LUCKY - that's not an exaggeration. The US government can be vindictive and petty when they choose - and that's taught in US History at the high school level.
But you're right - enough is enough. I'll talk to Yereth about terminating my account for me. There's more to life than pointless sparring with Geezer et al and I'm really using this as an excuse to procrastinate - hence the need to be drastic and burn that bridge and remove the temptation.
That said - thanks again to the now not-so-new gokm team and owners for continuing to operate a fantastic online English-language resource and for being exceptionally tolerant of laotou.
For the spectators - I urge you to call out online bullying and apologize for subjecting you all to my US focused rants. I'm still bent out of shape, because I see all these things as connected, egregiously hypocritical, and ominously dangerous.
I'm entirely unapologetic for China rah rah rah and trust the government will continue with it's missions of social responsibility. For those of you who care, social responsibility, poverty alleviation, and rural welfare have been on EVERY five year plan, since their original inception.
To me - the rural people represent the ¥1 or ¥0.01, but they are and have been the strength and the weakness of this nation since the beginning of Chinese history.
Sometimes - people go to the barber for conversation. The haircut is just a side benefit...