What city or part of China is the best for finding a girlfriend?

After spending time in Kunming, I think it's hard to find a girlfriend there. The girls seem aloof and not receptive.

www.gokunming.com/[...] - latataille

www.gokunming.com/en/forums/thread/11774/chinese_women - Dawei15

www.gokunming.com/[...] - Nevet

depends what you mean by gf. long term partner or fwb.

Usually depends on who's doing the searching.

www.gokunming.com/en/forums/thread/6313/dating_chinese_girls - crazylaowai

Crazylaowai = tommann = mmteacher= latataille = Nevet = Neddy

Ha,about love?

You should learn more about Chinese traditional girls in China, most traditioanal chinese girls from China like to be taken care of instead of be thought like a very depent girl. You will find a girl friend if you know more about chinese culture, I mean the are of communicating between boys and girls, it's inportant to communicate.

Love her with all of your heart, not just fwb

@veronica
It depends what you are looking for, as long as both people want the same thing it works. www.gokunming.com/en/classifieds/item/43665/just_one_night this is a woman seeking man advert.

There is also the idea of presentation. I have heard of many girls who talk of marriage on the first date. A big no no where I come from.

As for traditional girls. I have known 'traditional girls' who talk like a dependant girl, but really want someone to pay for a fun time and then have sex on the first night. I have known of other traditional girls who would not ever date outside their own ethnic group and others who have been dating for 3 years but still not kissed their bf.

Above-mentioned tendencies all exist, but note that women, like other people, are all different from each other - tendencies are one thing, stereotypes are another - "best place to find a girlfriend" is perhaps a little vague.

@tigertiger

Agree with some point, like It depends what you are looking for.

Different culture makes different views, but interesting.

Believe me, just few of Chinese girls want one-night relationship, most would choose long-term and heart to heart conversation :)