haha! yeah!

am in china

Excuse me. You're in China? Is it so hard just to go down to the police station / divorce office / PSB / whatever to inquire?

that s what i am trying to understand and i am not in kunming now

Pheww, you got us scared, thinking you were out of China and weren't able to take the weekend off and get a quick and cheap flight to Kunming and sort things out in person by paying a visit to your wife.

want a quick fix to this bullshit? post all emails l, dates of calls, address and shenfenzhen on weibo . tell your whole story there. she will never ever get married again. only post things you can prove.